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Male (36) looking for Female Austin, Texas, United States

I'm a Sci-Fi and Fantasy enthusiast, a PC gamer and a fan of tabletop games of most kinds! I'm also learning how to play Dungeons and Dragons, but I am very much a "child of technology" so any chance I get to NOT use actual pen and paper (for anything), I'm all for it!

Before you go any further, I want to be as up front as I can because I don't want to waste anyone's time:

I struggle with social anxiety and moderate depression (not severe enough for pills) and I fully understand that NO ONE comes "baggage free" - Neither do I! As long as you're cool with accepting me for who I am, please continue reading! :)

It's been said that I'm open-minded, non-judgmental and considerate of others, however, I'm also a very literal thinker, which can cause confusion on my part (especially when communicating via text), so I tend to ask a lot of clarifying questions.

Pets! I like most mammalian and exotic pets! As for birds, let's just say the Avian community and I have a mutually understood distaste for one another and we're each fine with the status quo... lol
But OMG, if you have a sugar glider or other #SmallCuteFurBaby, I will pet sit as often as you'll let me! :D

I greatly dislike most forms of social media. In fact, I'm one of those weirdos that doesn't even have a Facebook. I do have a Twitter... but I rarely check it and have considered deleting it. Part of the reason behind my feelings toward Social Media is "I know myself" and if I find something even remotely interesting on there, I know I'll lose hours of my life to it and I'd prefer not to because I've never feel "good" afterwards (the few times it's happened)... I just felt drained.

I'm a bit shy and reserved at first, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I can be unnervingly straightforward without realizing it and sometimes comes off as me being blunt or harsh... That said, as soon as I'm aware I've crossed a line (or am about to), I'm usually very quick to apologize and rephrase!

Friends and family have told me I'm very analytical-minded and they're not wrong! But I'll be honest: I struggle with keeping in mind that not everyone thinks the same way I do, so gentle reminders every so often (say, once a day) are appreciated!

My weekends typically consist of playing PC games or hanging with friends in comms or binge-watching the latest series I'm hooked on (I'm a homebody by default)! Ofc, I can be coaxed out of my "Geek Cave" with promises such as a trip to iPic Theaters for a movie and delicious Buffalo Spring Rolls or Urban Axes for some target practice! (Or Bacon... Yeah, bacon'll do the trick as well! lol)

I don't have any blood siblings (that I know of... OH yeah! I'm adopted!), but I've never put much stock into the "blood is thicker than water" concept. Rather, I believe that everyone can and should choose whom they call family or sibling! That said, my bestie and her Youngling are like the sister+niece I never had, but always wanted and I love them dearly!

I guess I should mention a bit about what I'm looking for and I think I can summarize in a few sentences:

I'm looking for a serious relationship, but would like to try taking it slow as I've always kinda fallen into the "serious bits". Also, intelligence is sexy, but so is thickness and curves! I'm looking for a "whole package", not just physical attraction, but mental and emotional as well! :)

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBald
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairBeard
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionDepression
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Job TitleSeeker of Knowledge

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesI don't like TV
Favorite TV showsSG1/SGA/SGU, Firefly, Farscape, Eureka, Sanctuary, Warehouse 13, Star Trek (DSN/Voyager), Supernatural, Charmed (Old & Reboot), Person of Interest, Leverage, White Collar, Van Helsing, Sense-8, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Haven, Lost Girl & so many mo
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Animation, Adult
Favorite moviesToo many to list, but generally anything SciFi/Fantasy based or just about any Marvel movie.
Favorite artistsToo many to list here, but I'm a "Basshead" to give you an idea.
Reading selectionFantasy, Science fiction
Favorite booksI don't really read books, to be honest. Not because I don't enjoy reading, just because I dislike the tactile sensation from constantly holding a book for hours. Call me odd, but it's the truth! :)
Idea of funBinge-watching a show or series of movies, Playing PC games with friends, Very occasionally trying something new irl!
HobbiesMusic, Movies, Games, Family, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorStrange
Friends describe asA troll
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Playing video games
Always wanted to tryUnderwater basket-weaving! Kidding!

But seriously, I've always wanted to try skydiving, but have never worked up my nerve to do so... Perhaps one day.


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeFigure out what makes me happy & keep doing that!

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerI'm looking for someone that's open-minded & non-judgmental, intelligent & considerate, honest & loyal. Being passionate about (or at least accepting of my passion for) PC gaming and/or D&D is a must!

A woman that can be somewhat blunt, has a goofy, dare I say deliciously obscure, sense of humor, can find Waldo like nobody's business (lol) & isn't afraid to discuss anything from favorite deserts to cultural taboos!

It's also very important that any potential partner understands:

"Everyone. comes. with baggage."
And that communication, patience, trust & respect are just as important (if not more so at times) than physical attraction.

If you're one of the women on this site looking for a potential dating partner, I shouldn't NEED to say this, but I'm going to anyhow:

I'm unable to handle a partner that is emotionally distant or won't/can't share their feels. I've done that before & I simply don't have the emotion capacity to cope with that.
Now, I don't mean "share all the feels right away", but y'know, let's say we've been dating for a 2 or 3 months: I feel there should be an equal amount of emotional sharing between the 2 of us by then. :)

Lastly, Intelligence is super sexy, but so are curves!! And I rather enjoy some "proportionate thickness", if ya know what I mean! :)
On the first dateMeet at a coffee shop (or somewhere quiet-ish) to start, determine a good topic & strike up a conversation about it!