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Romantic Nerd Looking for Real Companionship

Male (43) looking for Female Marion, Ohio, United States

I'm a late-thirties romantic gamer nerd who is tired of relationship games. I'm looking to find the person who makes me feel complete. I have a stable job (2nd shift).

I enjoy gaming almost every variety. I am a passionate soccer fan and enjoy watching hockey, although sports are not necessarily an obsession for me. I love food and cooking, to the point of singing and dancing while I do it...however I am rather shy so that's normally only when I am alone. I love nature and don't spend nearly enough time in it or travelling. I don't use my gym membership like I should. I enjoy comedy and laughing, and movies of all types aside from horror movies.

I am expecting a child later this year out of a past relationship. I understand this is a deal breaker for many people, so I want to be completely up front about that. My primary love languages are physical touch and quality time. Like many people, I sometimes struggle with depression and anxiety. So that means having open honest conversation with my partner is also incredibly important to me.


I am about 5'11", slightly heavy, but decent looking. I understand and love the importance of physical attraction in a relationship, but I'm tired of that being the deciding factor. I want a true partner, not someone who decides to talk to me because they think I'm hot.

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Punk Lifestyle

Favorite punk bandSenses Fail
Preferred type of punk rockHardcore Punk, Pop Punk

Gaming Preferences

GenresFirst Person Shooter, Sports, Action/Adventure, Simulation, Third Person Shooter, Strategy (ex: Tower Defense), MMORPG (ex: World of Warcraft), Puzzle, Role Playing
Gaming systemsPC, xBox
Top 3 favorite gamesGears of War series, EA NHL/FIFA franchise, anything D&D
Plays1-2 hours a day
Watch or stream onlineneither

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyManufacturing / Distribution
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleSupervisor

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Situation comedies, Movies, Sports, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsLucifer, Californication, Big Band Theory, Riverdale --- to name a few.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller
Favorite moviesPrincess Bride, The Usual Suspects, Tombstone --- to name a few.
Music typesRap, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Dance, Punk
Favorite artistsBetter than Ezra, Breaking Benjamin, Senses Fail --- to name a few.
Reading selectionFantasy, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Science fiction
Favorite booksHarry Potter, Princess Bride, anything by R. A. Salvatore
Idea of funGaming, Movies/TV, Conversation, Beer Tastings, Cooking, Nature
HobbiesSports, Music, TV, Movies, Games, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing cards, Volunteering

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingRegular drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Going to a casino, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryDownhill skiing and going on a cruise.

Views

Political viewsLiberal
ReligionAgnostic
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeI would like to find professional success in a career that is at least tolerable, but preferably gives me meaning beyond a paycheck. I want a partner who is equally driven in their own way with goals of their own. However, while we pursue our goals, I hope to grow together to create goals for us, goals for what I dream of as a beautiful future.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI'm looking for a woman who has her own goals, but is looking for someone to share and create new goals together to build a beautiful future. Someone who understands the importance of both the simple everyday comforts of loving someone special, and the excitement of the grandiose gesture or trip. I want someone who shares my passion for gaming in some way, as I truly believe sharing a passion keeps people connected. With a child on the way, I obviously need someone who is comfortable with that and wants to have my child in their life. Finally, I need someone who can accept being loved for who they are. This may seem odd, but I love deeply and fully, which I've been told can be overwhelming for people who are not accustomed to spontaneous hugs, random kisses, romantic words of affirmation, and regular affection.
On the first dateTo me, an ideal first date would start with a warm hug. We would share dinner, either out at a reasonable, quiet restaurant, or prepared by me personally. We would share conversation, food and drink as we get to know each other better. Then, I'd like to go do something out of the ordinary, like go ice skating --- something I'm not good at. I want my date to get to know the goofy side of me, and nothing brings that out like a situation where I have an inherent lack of skill! Then we could go to a movie, preferably something light and funny. Finally, ending the night by sharing our first kiss.

Sports

Enjoys playingBilliards / Pool, Bowling, Football (Soccer), Golf, Volleyball
Enjoys watchingFootball, Hockey
Favorite teamManchester United, Detroit Red Wings
Favorite college teamUniversity of Michigan